I’m Scarlett: warm, well-spoken, and just mischievous enough to make life more fun. Those who know me well describe me as poised, charismatic, and an engaging conversationalist. Drawn to the meaningful and the novel, I love learning from smart new friends, especially those with expertise in their own fascinating corners of the world.
I have a particular affection for men who carry depth and ambition in equal measure. The hard-working hedonists, the deep thinkers, the ones who have earned their pleasures and know how to savor them. Men who have lived enough life to know that time, not money, is the rarest luxury. Good banter, earthly delights, and thoughtful gestures are my love languages. If you recognize yourself in that description, consider this my acknowledgment that you already have my attention. I think you’ll find I’m easy to get addicted to.
Adaptability is one of my favorite traits. I’m equally at home savoring a Michelin-starred meal as I am indulging in a stack of pancakes at a late-night diner. A true connoisseur knows that pleasure can be found in both the haute and the humble. Pragmatic as I am romantic, I love beautiful things, but I’d rather invest in experiences, memories, or the S&P than another pair of heels. (But if you insist, I’ll graciously accept both.)
Underneath the Bordelle, you will find a curious, adventurous spirit. I love to travel and have been fortunate to explore nearly 20 countries, including a safari in South Africa, pastel coastlines in Italy, and skiing in Austria. I enjoy engaging my subpar camera skills to document my adventures, and I love trading stories and photos. I also make an excellent travel companion, and work trip boredom buster 😉
When I’m not exploring somewhere new, I sink into films, essays, half-finished books, and long conversations that unravel insights I didn’t know I was searching for. I’m a pop culture and current events nerd. My love language is acts of service, and I’m all about thoughtful gestures, both in terms of giving and receiving. I also love all the pertinent girly things including spa days, shopping, and being treated like a princess.
